Post-It Notes from a Stay-At-Home Dad.
These were all very entertaining :P
I love how he calls his wife “permanent roommate”
I will do this if I ever have a kid hahah
watching boys get out of the pool like
If you are an adult, becoming an adult, about to become an adult, or are worried about becoming an adult. take the time to watch this
actually, I think everyone, everywhere would benefit from this. please take the time. life is hard. SIGNAL BOOST.
This is important. Imagine if all of Tumblr can see it. I don’t want notes I want for you to each have a better day then the last. boost. watch.
Watch this. it might change your life. reblog. spread the word.
im crying thank you
“There’s nothing quite like Doctor Who. It has a wonderful excitement about it. I always had happy time there and it’s lovely to be around Billie again, even though I see her all the time anyway.” - David for “Tv & Satellite Week” (x)
Always see “real women” posts so here’s one for the dudes.
this says so much. I wish there were more posts like this. please.
body positivity and realistic body standards are important for guys too!
Men are constantly reassured that it’s okay to oogle women and harrass them about their looks. Women rarely see sexualized images of men that are made for women.
Guys get eye candy everywhere they go. Their sexual gaze is constantly catered to. Women, at least hetero women, are rarely given the opportunity to have their sexual interest entertained. We’re told that we should be okay with having nothing to look at. That our fantasies don’t matter. That we shouldn’t ever even remotely expect to be able to eyeball a svelte man in public, only behind closed doors and heaven forbid that the man look vulnerable. So we finally get to see images that turn us on and people are like, “Hey, you can’t put that in magazines! that might hurt some little boy’s feelings!”
Men are given alternative physical images to aspire to. Women are not.
While yes, guys should be treated to body positivity too… they already are. Just watch TV or any comedy and count the number of pudgy, out of shape, male leads vs pudgy, out of shape female leads. Or the number of hairy, overweight, older men making block buster movies vs the number of hairy, overweight, older women. Now count how many times that male character has some incredibly smart, sexy wife who does everything for him. And then how many times she’s the butt of the joke when he gets hot for some woman who’s younger and thinner than she is.
Fuck, just look at the responses to women not shaving their legs vs the responses to guys not shaving off their stubble.
Name six movies about a woman above the age of forty who’s love interest is a man that’s younger than she is where the plot doesn’t revolve around her being the butt of a cougar or mom joke. Now name me six where a man over the age of forty’s love interest is a woman who’s significantly younger than he is. Bonus points for action movies where anyone in the movie makes a mention of the age difference.
How many times are male politician or CEO’s body or style of dress put into question? How many times are female’s? Or has everyone forgotten how we flip out when the president’s wife gets a new hair cut? Or how Hillary Clinton had to have a FUCKING MAKE OVER before the news agencies took her seriously? How many times was her daughter raked over the coals for looking like an average teenager?
What’s more, I’ve never heard any of my female friends or my mother and her female friends saying, “Why can’t my 50 year old husband get a six pack like that?” What I USUALLY here is “I wish my husband would get a nice hair cut.” or “I wish he’d wear some nicer clothes that actually fit him.”
But what i hear overhear men saying all time is, “No fat chicks!” or “I wish my wife had bigger boobs.”
I know a woman who’s husband threatened to leave her if she didn’t get a face lift and a boob job- she was so upset that she did it. She felt disgusting every day because she wasn’t a size six and he expected her to be a size six after bearing him four kids. My own uncle said if his wife got overweight that he’d drag her behind a car until she lost weight. These aren’t even “bad guys”! They seem like perfectly nice men when you meet them! But they’re taught from the moment they’re kids that all women need to be a certain body type to be worthy of any attention.
Men are told through our culture’s stories and media that a woman will still love them unconditionally and throw themselves at them if they’re fat, old, balding, or an asshole, while women are told that if they’re pushy, fat, old or wearing out of style clothes that they aren’t even worth mentioning.
not to mention the blatant cissexism behind that whole “real women/real men” concept
OH YM FUCKING GOD ARE YOU SERIOUSLY SAYING THERE ARE NO BEAUTY STANDARDS FOR MEN YOU ARE A FUCKING MORON HAVE YOU FUCKING SEEN A SINGLE 2013 MOVIE OR READ A SINGLE COMIC BOOK OR BEEN TO A SINGLE FUCKING STORE LIKE ABERCROMBIE OR HOLLISTER JFC YOU ARE AN IDIOT
NO ONE IS SAYING WOMEN DONT HAVE SERIOUS BODY STANDARDS YOU MORON LITERALLY /NO ONE IS SAYING THAT/. WE ARE SAYING THAT THERE IS AN OBVIOUS STANDARD OF ‘REAL MEN’ AS WELL AND PRETENDING THAT DOESNT EXIST IS SEXIST AND FUCKING STUPID HAVE YOU TAKEN ONE LOOK AT ANY PIECE OF MEDIA AT ALL AND HOW EVERY MALE PROTAGONIST OF AN ACTION MOVIE OR A SCIFI MOVIE IS MUCLEBOUND AND REALLY GOOD LOOKING AND CLEARLY THIS APPEALS TO HETERO FEMALES HAVE YOU /READ/ A SINGLE PIECE OF GAY FANFICTION? JUST LIKE LESBIAN PORN APPEALS TO MEN, GAY FANFICTION IS MADE BY WOMEN FOR WOMEN AND YOURE PRETENDING THAT IS NOT AN ISSUE HOW IGNORANT ARE YOU
I WOULD RESPOND TO THIS MORE CALMLY BUT I AM REALLY PISSED OFF AT HOW YOU TURNED A GOOD POST ABOUT BODY ACCEPTANCE INTO A STUPID, SEXIST (ALSO CISSEXIST) RANT ABOUT FEMALE ISSUES, WHICH /NO ONE IS SAYING DON’T EXIST/
JFC I AM REALLY FUCKING PISSED OFF RIGHT NOW